November 1, 2014
Why do girls care if guys like them? I know I am exactly the same way but think about it, really think about it. When a guy doesn’t like a girl she thinks that for some reason it is her fault, that she did something wrong to make him not like her. She stays up for hours thinking about him and what she could of done differently. Then, the next time that they see each other she acts differently because now she has spent hours thinking about what he wants, how to change herself to be what he wants. Sometimes it works, the guy ends up falling for her and the girl is so happy. After a while though, at some point, they’ll realize that they aren’t themselves anymore, they are always pretending to be something that they aren’t. At that moment of realization and all the pain that comes with it, facing that fact that she was letting go of her true self, just to please a guy, she realizes that she would have been happier if she just spent a while upset over a guy she didn’t get, rather than living with the fact that she changed herself to please someone else who didn’t like the true her in the first place. You can’t pretend forever and eventually everything will catch up with you.
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